Would your response be honest or kind? Do we have to choose?
I would rather hear the str8 answer in a respectful way. I ask myself this a lot and I know I am overweight hard not to see that. If I didn't care then I wouldn't do anything nor ask anyone. Actually I would never ask anyone their opinion in the first place. If you don't know if you are or not and use no medical information then don't ask anyone because that is THEIR opinion not facts.